pregnant and sexy
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:21:09 PM
My advice to those who shy away from discussing matters as pertinent as sexuality is to go back to the Stone Ages.  I was recently approached by a friend who believes her husband is having an affair because she was pregnant.  She asked if it was possible to have a fulfilling sex life despite the fact that you are pregnant. My first advice was to give her a copy of the book “Recipe for Ecstasy what women want: Sexual and Relationship Satisfaction” by Dr Means. She thanked me tremendously for it later. Of course it is very possible and practical to have a steaming sexual relationship with your spouse whilst pregnant. Your...
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do you have a satisfying reletionship?
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:20:04 PM
It’s unbelievable that so many women are dissatisfied in the sex lives and relationships.  I am not just talking about the young and inexperienced, those who have not had a sexual encounter of any sort. I am talking about women whose sexual lives have become so monotonous that thy find little or no pleasure in the entire experience. Women that fall mostly into this group are those that have been married for some time. But there are some dating women who fall into this category too. Due to no fault of their own, they find themselves dreading the thought of sexual intercourse with their spouses or boyfriends. I have heard of women that...
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LOVE NEEDN’T END WITH MARRIAGE
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:18:22 PM
    When two people are in love, they long to walk down the aisle, be married and have legal passes to having sex. I often wonder why they haven’t heard of the phrase “Marriage is the tomb for love”. It is until I’ve read The Recipe for Ecstasy – What Women Want: Sexual and Relationship Satisfaction that I realised love needn’t end at all with marriage, even after decades have passed.     There’s just so many ways to keep love alive, to keep the relationship going, to keep the lust for sex continuing. It is our lack of know-hows that had ruined whatever bliss we had found....
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THE WEIGHT SEX HOLDS
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:17:14 PM
    I’m sure you do come across news reports of people being killed or killing people for sex related matters. Yesterday, I just read a big heading in the newspaper that a woman was killed for refusing sex. Do you find it shocking? Do you find it absurd?     There are many couples that ended their marriage in divorce because one party refuses to carry out his or her duty of sexual intercourse with the spouse. It is a valid reason for divorcing the other in the eyes of the law. Do you see how much weight sexual intercourse holds?     You may not agree with what I’m going to say next but...
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BE THE PILOT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:16:04 PM
Do you like to watch movies? Have you ever feel that you have learned a lot after watching a drama? Dramas or movies are actually act outs from real life situations with some exaggerations and fantasy.They are recounts and recollections and hence we get insights to different situations and reactions which in turn give us an idea as to what outcomes you get with each different reaction.     People that watch a lot of movies or dramas are usually the ones that are very quick and have plenty of solutions or ideas. This is because they already know what works and what doesn’t. I find that this is especially true with regards...
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TO PUT DOWN OR BE PUT DOWN
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:14:41 PM
    I’d like to know how many of you clean your house daily. Do you find it easier to maintain when you clean daily compared to cleaning only once in a week or two? Do you feel pride and content when you have your house cleaned daily?     Actually when you clean daily, you will not feel incapable or be put down no matter when, whoever comes to your house.  It’s the same with your relationship. If you are tending and nourishing your relationship daily, you will not be put down whoever comes along to trespass.     However, you do agree with me that it’s no easy task to clean daily...
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FUR YOUR WAY OUT OF THE COLD
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:13:22 PM
    Every couple will come to a time when they give each other the” cold shoulder” treatment. It’s definitely not a pleasant time in their relationship. Some couple can walk out of this situation in a day or two, some managed after a lapse of time but there are some that cannot get out and their relation deteriorates and ended.     What can one do to escape from the cold treatment? Perhaps one can crack a joke to ease the tension. You can try something like this;“Did you notice we have migrated to the Alps?” and then try to snuggle up with your spouse who would automatically try to push...
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KEEP THE NOVELTY IN YOUR RELATION ALIVE
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:12:02 PM
People have extra marital affairs or change lovers because they just love novelty. It is always wise to keep your relationship full of new experiences as in doing so, your relationship is kept alive. It feels like having a meal. If you have to eat the same dish daily, soon you will lose all appetite and it will be a torture to swallow the food. However, if the dishes are different daily, you will be looking forward to meal time. Do you love your other half? If your answer is yes, then see yourself as a dish on the table for your love to enjoy. You have to let your imagination run wild, let go of your image and free yourself from the boundaries...
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seduce and glue him tight
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:10:22 PM
    How many of you know how to seduce? I believe you do agree with me that not everybody knows how to seduce or has the qualification to seduce. Are you saying that you are a decent girl and do not need to seduce now that you have your Mr Right? I can tell you very honestly that you are wrong.     It is because you are so decent that you soon become boring to Mr Right. Why else would another person be able to intrude into your relationship? Knowing how to seduce is like putting glue into all the pores and securing whatever holes there is in your relationship.  It is then that Mr Right can stick with you forever.    ...
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having a rewarding relationship
Thursday August 25, 2011 06:07:50 PM
I’d like you to reflect back to your school years. How was your grade? Did you notice that as you go to higher levels, your grades go lower? It’s the same in relationship. When you first started, you have flying colours and floated way up high in the air. Then as time passed, you are not doing as well and started to come down to earth. Soon, you started failing and sink to hell. It is not easy to maintain a good grade as we climb up the levels. Likewise, it is not easy to maintain the relationship in good standing as the years passed. How did you feel when you scored ’A’s and what were your feelings when you have ‘F’s?...
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